"Sometimes the girl should ask the guy out, (but the guy shouldn't make her have to). God used Deborah when Barak wouldn’t step up. Couldn’t this also (sometimes) be God’s way of matching faint-hearted fellows with gutsy girls?"
-Abraham Piper: 22 Words -
Had I never "stepped up," I have a strong suspicion Aidan and I would have been ships passing in full daylight, knowing there was a spark, but doing nothing to fan the flames.